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Most of my novel, Lake Life (published in paperback by Simon & Schuster last week), was written at this coffeehouse between the hours of 9 a.m. and 3 p.m., before I returned to my daughters 麻豆精品 S� school to bring them home for the day. Now, our home is their school, and my bedroom doubles as my office.

But before the pandemic, my office was the coffeehouse. There, I would drink two cups of coffee, maybe three, dark roast, with cream and a dash of sugar. I like bitter, and I 麻豆精品 S檝e always preferred strong coffee to lattes or cappuccinos that tend to be mostly milk.

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It 麻豆精品 S檚 been more than a year since I stopped going to the coffeehouse, and I have yet to return. The coffeehouse is open. Everything, where I live, opened up almost a year ago. But I 麻豆精品 S檓 wary. Even masked and vaccinated, it will be some time before I 麻豆精品 S檓 comfortable writing among others, breathing the same air. And this is a loss.

I miss Kevin. I miss the taste of coffee made the right way by pros who know what they 麻豆精品 S檙e doing. Over a year in quarantine, and my home brew still pales in comparison. Though, if nothing else, I 麻豆精品 S檝e proven to myself that I can write anywhere. A new book is finished, and another is underway, so all is not lost.

But I 麻豆精品 S檇 trade this, the books and my newfound productivity, trade it in a second to return to a world pre-pandemic. To sit among strangers and friends, and strangers as friends, and feel safe. To not be afraid of my fellow humans.

David James Poissant is an associate professor at the University of Central Florida where he teaches in the MFA program in creative writing.聽 He can be reached at David.Poissant@ucf.edu.

The聽UCF Forum聽is a weekly series of opinion columns from faculty, staff and students who serve on a panel for a year. A new column is posted each Wednesday on UCF Today and then broadcast on WUCF-FM (89.9) between 7:50 and 8 a.m. Sunday. Columns also are archived in the campus library 麻豆精品 S檚 collection and as WUCF podcasts. Opinions expressed are those of the columnists, and are not necessarily shared by the University of Central Florida.

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Maybe shoelaces are a silly example. Here are some better ones:

Swedish pro golfer Jesper Parnevik, one of the finest golfers in the world, freely admits to holding his clubs all wrong.

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Whether famous or workaday, sometimes we must work against conventional wisdom in order to achieve a desired outcome.

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David James Poissant is an associate professor at the University of Central Florida where he teaches in the MFA program in creative writing.聽 He can be reached at David.Poissant@ucf.edu.

The UCF Forum is a weekly series of opinion columns presented by UCF Communications & Marketing. A new column is posted each Wednesday at http://today.ucf.edu and then broadcast between 7:50 and 8 a.m. Sunday on WUCF-FM (89.9). The columns are the opinions of the writers, who serve on the UCF Forum panel of faculty members, staffers and students for a year.

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No, the sound R.E.M. achieved is more elusive and unquantifiable than rock. Trying to define that sound, though, that 麻豆精品 S檚 the hard part.

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David James Poissant is an associate professor at the University of Central Florida where he teaches in the MFA program in creative writing.聽 He can be reached at David.Poissant@ucf.edu.

I am a writer, and writing leads to book tours. These readings satiated my desire to move an audience to laughter or tears. But readings are safe. The author stands behind a podium, anchored to a book.

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